How
do I find a Guy that is not just interested in sex?
That is a very difficult
question. Ultimately all men want sex, any man that says otherwise is a liar.
But I presume you mean a man that wants a long term relationship, rather that
just a few months of sex or a one night stand. I will explain the things to
watch out for.
Flash guys. You know the ones with a BMW sports car (should be screaming out
£20,000 in debt), poser, gods gift to women and has a gift when it comes to
chatting up women. The women just converge on these guys and his friends. Well
you know for a fact that if this guy is surrounded by women, he has got no
shortage of interested women. Therefore you can be a bit more intelligent than
the average woman and realise this guy is just going to move from one woman to
the next. Not the type of guy you want a long term relationship with. Unless you
fancy being a single mother, bankrupt because of his flash cars and friends with
the dozens of other single mothers he has deceived.
Most women tend to go for the wrong type of men. They always go for men that
have girlfriends or are married. That’s a problem. To go out with you, they are
usually the unfaithful type that are only interested in sex. Usually they will
use you as a bit on the side for a few months without telling their girlfriend
or wife. At best they will dump their girlfriend or wife for you, the problem is
when the next best woman comes along, you are the one getting dumped.
Unfaithful men can not be reformed so don’t bother with them!
So how do you find the faithful men that are NOT JUST interested in sex. Well
you make friends with as many men as possible. Just keep them as friends until
you know for certain. Gradually over time they will leak whether they are just
interested in sex or whether they want a long term relationship. Believe me
there are men out there that want long term relationships, but they won't openly
admit it. I am one of the them. Usually the older a man gets the more maturer he
gets and the more likely he will be looking for a long term relationship.
You can also pick out from their friends what type of bloke a man is. Usually a
friend will say something like “Steven hasn’t had any sex for years, poor guy”
Jokingly. You can immediately derive from this sentence that the guy saying it
thinks he can get sex whenever he wants and Steven has not had any sex for a
while. So to you, Steven should immediately show potential. The chance is if he
has gone years without sex, waiting another few months while he is going out
with you is not going to make much difference to him. If it does make a
difference having to wait for sex then he obviously doesn’t value your
relationship, so get rid of him!
My advice is that you never have sex with a guy for the first few dates. This is
how you weed out the guys that are interested in you and the guys that are just
interested in getting laid. Make him wait at least a month!
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