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Why do men act like sex starved creatures?
Men
have very high levels of the hormone testosterone in their bodies. This hormone
is the reason why guys think about sex so often.
Women don’t like most men overtly displaying these desires in a fully
crude male fashion. Men might lose their jobs through sexual harrassment
or they might get arrested, so men suppress their sexual desires.
The problem comes when men drink alcohol or take drugs. Drugs and alcohol
turn off the reasoning part of the brain, add that to the high
testosterone levels and men can no longer suppress their desires when
they are under the influence of alcohol or drugs. The reason why I’m saying this, is not
as an excuse for men, I wish they didn’t drink too much, it’s to ensure
you are extra cautious around men that are under the influence of alcohol
or drugs.
Once men get a taste for sex they can become addicted to it. They want to
experiment and try different things. The only way they can do that is
with different women. There are
different types of men, and some men are more prone to sexual
experimentation and unfaithfulness than others, so you can’t put all men
into the same category. Again this
is not an excuse but merely one of the reasons why I believe some men
behave like they do with regards to sex.
Men can’t give birth to children and they therefore are more likely to
see sex as just fun, rather than seeing the whole picture, particularly
in the heat of the moment when a tempting woman is in front of him.
Having sex for a woman can change the rest of her life because she could
end up pregnant and looking after a child. Or a woman could end up with a
Sexually Transmitted Disease and end up infertile for the rest of her
life. Many men don't understand the big impact that it has on a woman,
particularly immature or young men.
My recommendation is if you don’t want sex don’t give him any
encouragement. Don’t invite him in for coffee, don’t flirt with him to a
point where you are inciting him to want to have sex (I don’t mean don’t
flirt with him, I mean don’t touch part of his body that would incite him
to believe you want sex, because that will put you in danger). As soon as
you invite him in for coffee, his hormones will immediately go wild and
he will be anticipating sex, it will be very difficult for him to resist,
even if you say no. It kind of flicks a switch in his brain, if you flick
that switch in his brain it is extremely difficult for him to resist. So try
not to put yourself in that position until you are ready for it, for your
own safety, I’m not making excuses for men, but simply trying to ensure
women don’t take the risk of putting themselves in that position. If you are not ready for sex, any
element of risk is too much and should be avoided.
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