My boyfriend is rubbish at sex!
What can I do?
Encourage him to
experiment with your body, so both you and him can find out what is good and
what is bad.
Sorry to be crude, but he probably hasn’t had much sexual experience or he
hasn’t watched many porn videos or he has watched the wrong type of porn videos.
When something feels good let him know by increasing the level of your moans.
Move your body so that he hits the right places. If you want more intense
movements move you body towards him. If you want less intense movements, move
your body away slightly. Grab hold of his hands and move them to the right
places.
Give him eye contact and move your eyes in such a way as to pull him to the
right place on your body. Use your eyes to indicate whether you are enjoying
what he is doing or not enjoying it.
No fake orgasms, because he will think that you like what he is doing.
Eventually if you give him a bit of coaching you will no longer need to give him
any indications about what you want. It is all about body language and
communicating what you want and what you don’t want.
If he doesn’t improve after a while of course, you can always get a new
boyfriend.
It is amazing how many women expect men to be psychic. He’s not psychic, tell
him what you like and what you don’t like.
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