Which type
of man should I go for?
I don't really think there is a correct answer to this,
because different men are right for different women.
I fancied a lass at work and for years I tried my best to chat her up and I
think she actually fancied me as well. The problem was we could never seem to
have a proper conversation together. We either spoke at the same time and
interrupted each other or we could not think of anything to keep the
conversation going. Whenever we did anything we were never synchronized to what
the other person was doing. For example I would reach over to offer her
something just as she begun to look in the other direction. Initially it was
probably because we were both nervous. However the ultimate fact was that we
were not made for each other, even though we found each other attractive and we
tried our best to get together it was never going to work. We should have been
showing some synchronization after a few months of knowing each other. We should
have been having free flowing conversation in a relaxed manner. We could not
demonstrate either of those after a few years so we should have given up on each
other and moved on a long time ago.
The type of man you want is someone who can pass as your best friend. Who
instinctly knows what you enjoy and what you don't enjoy.
Women focus far too much on material things when they are looking for a man.
They want a guy with a flash car, a brilliant job, smart clothes, a man popular
with other women, famous guys from the movies or a football player. Instead they
should focus more on who is compatible with them. You can't possibly say that a
man that other women fancy is going to be a good match for you. Are you really
going to fancy every Premiership football player you set eyes on? A guy with a
flash car, smart clothes and high status may look good when you are showing off
to your friends, but is he really the man for you? Is he going to stick around
through the good times and bad times or is he going to move onto his next woman
when the going gets tough?
Think about what you want from a man in the long term. You want a man that will
make a good father and a good husband. He needs to be caring (not a bad boy),
reliable, sensible, fun, faithful and somebody you can discuss your feelings
with. Not some macho, show off who is always attracting the attention of other
women and can't resist other women.
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